From this film, it's the first problem for many gays - continue your bloodline of family, especially you are the only son in the family. In tradition Asian culture, family always in priority, the reputation and name of the family. Some may say Gays sacrifice individual happiness for family happiness or whatever but think about it...it all just how you define and understand it. When a family member is happpy, it also means the happiness of the family.
I feel quite lucky my family got nothing a lot but Sons..lol..but I already feel so hard to accept and willing to come out. Therefore, I roughly can know how hard it is for those gays who are the only son with the invisible pressure and burden for them...surrogate maybe an option but not all gay couples can affort and also some legal issues.
Well, sometimes I think it's not fair for WOMEN because men just spread their seeds while the women who are the one carrying the next generation for 9 months with many pains. Why only men can pass down the family name or so called bloodline or inherit. Women just a tool??? ; ( I love you Mum!
By the way, I also still a bit confuse about the ending?? Who he chose?? Actually, his mother tried to say what? Move on or be happy?? Could anyone tell me? (I'm a bit dumb..lol) His mother a bit dramatic and psycho but I quite like her...lol
Last but not least...that Asian guy so freaking hot!!!!!!!! Omg...he is so yummy!!!! I want him so badly...=0 FYI, his name is Kris Duangphung. xD
Will talk about the next film on next post. =)
That lovely eyes!!! =D |
Can't.......re..resist!! |
Cute guy !
ReplyDeleteAnd hot!! Your type?? ; )
DeleteThink they purposely left it hanging for you to decide which ending you want :)
ReplyDeleteYa..I think so..I confirm want happny ending!! Chose him not her!!! xD
Deletei am the only son in my family .. and i thank god that they are not pushy ( maybe not yet ) lol ;p
ReplyDeleteSoon...very soon =p ...and you have my support for that.
DeleteSo... thanks to that Shadow... you're now into Thai food... enjoy the flavor =P
ReplyDeleteHe is Vietnamese but ethnicity does not matter..as long as he is my type LOLL
Deletei'm the only grandson...sigh:(
ReplyDeleteOh..May everything will goes well on you..it takes time =)
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