Went out with a guy I know from Jackd, he is an Asian from US, just staying here for few days. Nope..no 'fun' involved this time. Was 100% just chatting and sharing every thing. I have to say it's the most wonderful and inspiring chat I had.
He is very active in US by involving in legalise same-sex marriage in US. I have learned a lot of things from him. About what really is accept yourself, the problems of gay at here, what really is love and relationship for us. I like his ambition and vision about making all the states in US legalise same-sex marriage. The community he joined fights for gay rights.
He said at US mostly gays are quite united. That's why over there really got normal outing with new people not like here mostly seeking for fun or feel fear to meet new people?? He encourages people to be active to make homosexual as a common thing in society. We can't always blame society but also should take action to change the society.
Well, he also think it's quite hard for gays at here to change that fast but US there went through stage like us. For my opinion, I also not sure how gay world going to be in the future..maybe after 50 years only majority will accept homosexual?? I don't know...
We also touched up a bit on coming out issue. He did give some courages to me come out to friends. He said I have too many burdens and think too much, sometimes we should think that coming out to friends can make the bond becomes stronger, especially you think they are your close friends.
At the end, I have to say he is really a fully accepted himself and matured gay I have ever seen. He is so proud of himself and just totally be himself without concern about how others see him. Like he said..we can please everyone when we already tried our best. It's my pleasure to know such a person. I told him he can become a great counselor..LOL