Recently, I have been going out a lot with high school buddies. It felt so nice to hang out with them, as we keep talking non-stop. I really appreciate them because we accept each other's way to sustain this friendship.
I'm a totally homebody and passive type of person, and if people don't contact or message me, I seldom initiate first (only I got mood or just know the person cause need build up concrete friendship first..xD). Ya...that's why I don't have many friends, many people can't stand my "coldness" and "irregular". Trust me..one week no convo in my phone is normal.
For my gang, they all have different ways to sustain. Some are need message or talk to each other regualrly, some are super low profile, only share things with us when we gather which normally shock us with her new update O.O. Some like me...hardly to keep in touch, but mostly the one organize gathering. Maybe I prefer meet in person...cause feel real?? don't know..hmmm Skype is different too.
Although, we hardly to meet but once we gather together, we are like never separated before. Feel like we always see other and no distance between all of us. Just cant stop chatting and gossiping. LOLL
My best friend in my life also the same, he is super far now and we hardly to chat. However, once we start chatting, it's also can't stop until we are tired or need to do other stuff...lol Knowing each other for almost 10 years...we quite understand each other style in friendship. We don't need have regular contact, but just once in a while (3-6 months xD) is enough. I guess we are the same kind of people...that's why best friend.
Hence, I think I cannot have LDR and maybe with bf I will message him constantly, but once it's stable and long??? Better at least meet him 2 or 3 times per week. LOL
For my another gangs, please bear with me or putus kawan if you want. Love you all~ xD
What's your way to sustain your friendship?? =)