Recently, I am so busy for marathon again, but this time is ANIME marathon!!! xD Until I forgot to update my dear blog. Sorry~
Came across an interesting article about friendship among gay. Is there a 100% pure friendship between two gays?? Hmmm...to me, I also can't guarantee it.
You see...when you looking for a gay friend, isn't that you will see whether you are interested or he sort of attracted you??? Like so many of us like to say...everything starts from friend ; ) xoxo...blah blah
Of course if the attraction is not strong enough then both of you stay as friends, but I agree with the author said. Sometimes it's quite hard to draw a clear line between friendship and romantic relationship. You have to handle it carefully without crossing that line.
If you don't handle well, it is either no more friendship (eg. keep distance) or more than that. Maybe you think it's very easy, but don't underestimate the power or pressure from people around you. Sometimes they indirectly make you choose either become acquaintance or a couple. Espeacially you got your bf ady.
* Thanks to soul232, I need to clarify something. The author took the viewpoint from Straight people and apply on us. Actually, there is no doubt straight also have this kind of situation. Well, in the end we as human got thing coded in our DNA, see opposite sex (for us is same sex la but theory still the same) will automatically see as potential mating partner first. Just how strong is the attraction and how you distinguish and categorize as friend or potential lover.
I of course belive pure friendship exists....just try to figure out that what made us think or categorize he is friend or potential lover in the first place?? =)
Again, a nice statement from the author - Actually, the existence of pure friendship is not important, the most important is how to keep it as friendship while don't let it deteriorate or "upgrade".