Wednesday 19 June 2013

My Friends My Way

Recently, I have been going out a lot with high school buddies. It felt so nice to hang out with them, as we keep talking non-stop. I really appreciate them because we accept each other's way to sustain this friendship.

I'm a totally homebody and passive type of person, and if people don't contact or message me, I seldom initiate first (only I got mood or just know the person cause need build up concrete friendship first..xD). Ya...that's why I don't have many friends, many people can't stand my "coldness" and "irregular". Trust me..one week no convo in my phone is normal.

For my gang, they all have different ways to sustain. Some are need message or talk to each other regualrly, some are super low profile, only share things with us when we gather which normally shock us with her new update O.O. Some like me...hardly to keep in touch, but mostly the one organize gathering. Maybe I prefer meet in person...cause feel real?? don't know..hmmm Skype is different too.

Although, we hardly to meet but once we gather together, we are like never separated before. Feel like we always see other and no distance between all of us. Just cant stop chatting and gossiping. LOLL

My best friend in my life also the same, he is super far now and we hardly to chat. However, once we start chatting, it's also can't stop until we are tired or need to do other stuff...lol Knowing each other for almost 10 years...we quite understand each other style in friendship. We don't need have regular contact, but just once in a while (3-6 months xD) is enough. I guess we are the same kind of people...that's why best friend.

Hence, I think I cannot have LDR and maybe with bf I will message him constantly, but once it's stable and long??? Better at least meet him 2 or 3 times per week. LOL

For my another gangs, please bear with me or putus kawan if you want. Love you all~ xD

What's your way to sustain your friendship?? =)






13 comments:

  1. eeeehhhhh why cannot LDR one? u said at 1st u the passive type, that dont mind not contacting at all but once awhile only is enough. isnt that how LDR will be like? u are suited for one. haha

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    1. =.= that is for friendship, you should know relationship is different. Don't think any lover can accept his partner only contact once awhile. You go try and tell me!!!

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  2. hahaha LDR is terrible. thank god you're not fated for it

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    1. Hahaha...lucky me ;) Is okay you can do it.

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  4. 1 special friend of mine that i have is if i didn't meet once every 2 weeks/weekly i felt my life is incomplete.lol

    felt blessed to have him,so does he:D

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  5. Chat once in a while that is. And being available when needed.

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    1. o.O ya..forgot the latter part. Always there when needed =)

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  6. I think once in awhile contact is needed. But I've got a friend whom I've known since primary 1 till now, we hardly talk or meet but once we do its like the world is just behind us :)

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  7. same.. i barely talk to my friends over phone/sms/fb/skype/anything.. but once we meet, my friends have to ask me to shut up. lol

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    1. Hahaha...you must be very talkative among them ; )

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