Sex after 6 months

Sex, the crucial thing that cannot be seperated or taken away from love in couple, no matter how long both of you have been together. It seems quite important for couple to maintain their relationship...perhaps. However, it also the evil thing to lure one party to go out the track of long term relationsip. Found an interesting research about when is suitable to have sex with your partner. They found that if couples had sex after being together 6 months, the relationship will last longer than those had sex before 6 months.

Well, of course there are explanation for this finding, people tend to know the partner rationally and carefully when sex doesn't involve in this 'get to know each other' stage.  People tend to find more happiness in long term because they have known the partner very well in proper way, especially women, while men also can experience it but is unconciously. When sex involves in the process, people will confuse sex = nutrient for relationship, and take less effort to understand the partner more.

I wonder this finding is also apply for gay couples, as we know...no sex for 6 months when you have a BF??? Big NO WAY from most gays..I think..hahahaha. Even for me I think I can hold for 3-4 months?? I have no idea since I'm horny all the time...lol. If you say those have been together for many years then of course possible, but for gay couple being together in first few months, that is the time the relationship full of Passion, Love, Affection..lol. I should do a survey about how long gays can hold their urge.

"Not now dear, still haven't six months yet" xD

But when your bf is like this, it is so hard to reject the request! LOL

Fair or Brown (or tanned) Body?

This few days, don't why went to MV few times during this kind of timing, because I have mild agoraphobia (fear of crowd, and it got worse after I went to Hong Kong =.=) so a bit hard for me to wander around the mall with a lot of people... I will have shortness of breath in huge crowd. Friday was the worst as there were freaking so many people even in Gardens..luckily I needed to settel my stuff at Gardens only.


Met my friends and discussed one topic about whether muscualr guy with fair skin looks nice or not. To me, both fair and brown body attracts me as long as I can see the defined muscles. However, my friend said it looks so weird for a fair skin guy has a muscular body. Recalling back all those "nice" photos I have seen, I really don't agree with him, but I couldn't voice out the big NO and explain. If not he will think why I know so much about men's naked bodies...I found some photos..they all totally can turn me regardless of skin tone...LOL



Hot! =)

 

 

 

 

Normal Asian skin tone =)

Quite like clean and fair skin ;)

This one really...FAIR..but still hot

 

Another Crush..lol

Recently, browsing the internet found this hot guy Ashita Xu Chaemchamrat. Maybe I outdated already because since like many people know him except me. How come I misssed up this hot fellow. Looking at him..totally my cup of tea..the look..the just nice facial hair..the body...oh my! Well, don't think he is one of our kind.

You see..I was thought I always fall on straight guys, but after read some researches, I know I'm not the only one. Research found that our (Gays) brain have higher similarity with females' brain, and that's why we are more attracted to manly and macho guys, who are mostly straight guys. However, they also found our behaviour also same with straight guys, use the little buddy to think first when see attractive people...and etc. I mean not like women who always want gain emotional attachment first. Hence, I can say we are so complicated to let scientists to fully understand us...LOL.  I think it takes time to understand homosexual. Okay now I have put my collection on my dear blog first.

I love this one the MOST. Oh! Melting now...

 

 

Normal life photo is more attractive to me ; )


 

Annual Taiwan LGBT Pride 2012 (Promo Videos)

Here comes again! Taiwan LGBT Pride is coming soon and it's already 10th year =) It seems like not my business, but who care it's so far from me and can't attend, I still support it!! This time the main issue they try to pass down is legalize same sex marriage and the slogan  "I Do! Do I?
 Equal Rights to Marriage, Diversity in partnership". With Obama started showing the support for same-sex marriage. There are more and more politicians also started to give out their opinions on same-sex marriage. Some of them show support and take action. To me, Taiwan's government is quite open-minded as they allow LGBT to have pride publicly and even block the road for them. I guess it's very hard for us to have a pride at my country =.=

People may say Asian slowly westernized from Western culture, and acceptance of homosexual also being included. Well, I do agree we really westernize and losing our own culture, especially Malaysia and Singapore. There is no surprise you find Chinese don't understand Chinese and totally like White...culture, music, thinking..etc. However, the acceptance of homosexual does not count as negative influence because it's all about human rights. LGBT should able to have the rights including marriage because they are human in the first place. I quite like what I have read in a forum,

"It does not matter whether homosexual is born or we chose it, as long as we don't cause harm to others and ourselves, I don't see any problem of it. We have our rights too. Right to choose."

Well, now here are the promo videos. The guy with black stripe in first video got my attention. Totally my type ; ) Oh!! If interested or whatever..here is the official website http://twpride.org/ can choose language.

Got comment said this video is gays use to give them fantasy and self-deceive. I was like..HELLO! There are many real cases or stories like these okay!!??

 

Found any hot or cute guy? ; )

 

This one quite sweet =) I will cook for my dear too.

 

 

 

 

Straight guys' enemy ..Sad?

It was tiring day yet happy day, went to gym and saw a new hot guy =) After normal rountine then headed to locker room, and saw a new hot guy going to change his clothes. His bottle caught my attention because with the word Manhunt Malaysia, I think he was contestant before sicne he got the qualifications. I was waiting for him to take off his clothes and see whether I was right or not. A bit disappointed, because he seems like lack of work out for some times, a bit chubby tummy but luckily still could see the visible 6 pack abs O.O . Not sure what is his race, looks like mixed...whatever as long as he is hot...lol

After that, I went to MV to meet my besties, as usual both of them are female. We just kept talking non-stop and laugh out loud at the restaurant, not willing to leave. Kept asking for refill our drinks, I think the waitress also a bit unpleased, but also didn't have many customers and quite empty so we didn't bother. Straight to the topic, I always find that my besties' boyfriends don't really like me because I hang out a lot with them alone..I mean just 2 persons go out, so sometimes people thought we are couple.

Got one time, one of my besties had fight with boyfriend until she cried becasue she was hang out with me for the whole day. They were fighting over the phone and I was right beside her. Super awkward when she cried and I couldn't say anything becasue she on the phone. I just went off for awhile to give space for her. After that, she pretended nothing happened and continue hang out with me until quite late night. I bet her boyfriend really want to kill me -.-"

Another bestie is the way we talk and interact is like couple, that's what other friends told us. Got people even said we look so good as couple. Hence, her boyfriend also doesn't really like her to hang out with me even there is someone else too. We seem quite close when hanging out together and going out quite often. Everytime, she go out will try to avoid mention my name. Plus, her boyfriend is a control freak, like everyday or I shall say every hour..must check where is my friend. Every night before go to sleep must report to him, yet my friend willing to accept and let him control. I guess it's love?..lol

Should I be happy, they so alert about me because I'm good enough to become a threat to them? My besties are so pretty..no joking, so maybe that's why they so alert. I should come out to my besties so we can hang out anytime we want and like cause my besties would say to them.."He is gay so don't worry dear"...hahaha

100 Facts about me

1. I'm a Magnet that attracts to same pole instead of repel it.
2. Raised in quite traditional Chinese family.
3. Already possessed three C out of five so far, condo, cash (savings and part-time) and car (no career and credit card) in very young age. Of course not from my hardwork and might lose everything when parents find out my secret.
4. Only accepted who I am for almost 2 years, used to plan just go marry a woman and continue the life
5. No one know I'm gay except my Brother but not really (thought I'm a Bi)
6. Have mum who is totally anti-gay and dad with open-minded
7. Have better relationship with cousin sister rather than brothers
8. Love every food with white colour, milk is the most.
9. Must drink milk everyday.
10. Love everything with cheese
11. Don't like sweet stuff and prefer sour taste
12. Like to eat vegies and fruits, but meat is the most
13. Like to drink hot drinks all the time, especially TEA
14. Love to eat any kind of nuts, but not jam of them
15. Favourite fastfood KFC, but Malaysia is so disappointing
16. Love Asian guys, especially Filipino and Japanese
17. Love small eyes guys with charming smiles =)
18. Think super good looking guys are for watch not own
19. Somewhat think I'm so not picky, cause always think as long as that guy is a male and gay. I can accept him.
20. Scare and hate spider the most
21. A bit emotional and narcissistic person
22. Love red and blue colour
23. Still watch super hentai japanese version (power ranger) until now
24. Love to watch anime since primary (top Favourite - digimon, sailormoon, slamdunk)
25. Love to watch all types of drama like literally..from US, Thailand, Philippines, Japan, Korean, Taiwan, China, Spain...as long as the story interest me
26. Never cried out loud when stepped in teenage year even when my grandmom died. Only tear moving inside my eyes when watch or hear touching story.
27. Can't stand on boys and girls act cute, especially they don't have the qualifications
28. Love guys withh little mustache the most
29. Not a very caring and kind person, but still will pick up rubbish on the floor, hold door for people, maintain smile face to everyone
30. Free thinker who do not stand on any religion side, but still believe in God
31. Purely virgin and zero experience in romantic relationsip
32. Never touched guys' bodies
33. Believe there is true love and soulmate for everyone
34. Don't believe love at first sight
35. Slightly addicted to gay porn
36. My height is above average..well..tallest in the family and tall over one head distance with my mom and dad.
37. Love to eat egg and everything relate to it except thousand-year egg or century egg
38. People say I don't look funny person, but actually I do and quite talkative when we are close
39. Good boy and nerdy look all the time by wearing glassess for more than 12 years until now, so I have no idea how I look without glasses (power 600++ for both eyes)
40. Only once been called handsome or good looking when took off glasses for awhile, and that person is my mom.
41. Hated to be called like a girl, but now is totally fine with it.
42. Like shinny stuff especially jewelery and metal too.
43. Have a dog which is pekingese mixed with shih tzu
44. My face is totally unfriendly when no expression, so have to always maintain smiley face
45. Don't like horror movie will have nightmare for few days after watch it...like seriously.
46. Scare of dark, must switch on all the light when darkness approach, but surprisingly not for sleeping
47. Youngest in the family and slightly spoiled by parents
48. Formal wear fetish into extreme always can't stop staring at those formal guys at any place.
49. Like to swim, feel freedom and relax from it
50. Still a college student at the moment.
51. Fear of crowd and squeezing inside it, so seldom to go pasar malam and peak hour of shopping mall.
52. Homebody guy..prefer stay at home facing the laptop instead of going out.
53. Friends always say I'm a hipster because I like and do things seem so unpopular or uncommon for them.
54. 90% of my friends are Female, 10% are Male. I also don't know why.
55. My mom once thought I'm a playboy because I once brought three dressed up pretty friends (not kidding) to my house for awhile to change my clothes.
56. Like raining day only when I'm at indoor.
57. Love soft toys and wish to hug it every night but same room with bother so...no chance.
58. Very like to exaggerate story..and put some lies in it.
59. Consider good liar or shall say good actor..trying my best to change
60. Like emo songs but a bad singer.
61. Favourite artist is Arvil Lavigne
62. Can consider artistic person
63. A very very punctual person, friends always freak out when I call them on the set time.
64. Never been clubbing
65. Never got drunked before even though have super low tolerance to alcohol
66. Super Stalker in Facebook
67. Horny all the time especially after work out.
68. Don't like wear jean, prefer short pants
69. Quite skinny yet hairy at the same time, especially my leg hair can surprise eveyone
70. Lady kind of smooth and fair skin, but not for the face
71. Have thick lips like Angelina Jolie (My cousin said it) and thick eyebrow too
72. Currently building up my body
73. No peircing and tattoo
74. A bit worship for branded stuff, but I only own some.
75. Like to travel and have been many coutries.
76. Once was thinking to become a scriptwriter
77. Love to be back hug from someone
78. Like to cut my hair very short
79. Very like angel wings symbol
80. No one can mess with me when I'm angry and piss off.
81. Have a lot of crushes in my life but none of them are reachable or even talk to them
82. Super procrastinator, used to be a good student before Uni life
83. Like supernatural things and magic (witch, wizard...etc)
84. Like to daydream all the time
85. Love to sleep and watch drama in spare time
86. Have a malfunction gaydar, so don't have any gay experience at all
87. Morning person not a night owl
88. Easy to conform with majority and easily change my mind
89. Totally not a football fan, but don't mind watch World Cup
90. Like to walk naked in the house
91. Easy to please but also easy to get angry
92. Quite bitchy sometimes, few sentences can pwn a person.
93. Sometimes quite straightforward without thinking it's suitable or not
94. Used to addict play online game
95. Want to learn play piano desperately
96. Like to be alone, yet want someone who can lean on
97. Like to look at the sky when nothing to do
98. Planning to go oversea study and don't want come back
99. However family is important to me
100. Currently desperately want to download Grindr and Jackd, but I control myself to not

Finally, I did it!! My brain is so tired now to write all these. I can show this to someone who want to date me, so he can roughly know who I am...lol

Cute guy at Gym

Went to gym and met the cute guy I saw once, it's very hard to bump into him. Maybe he is not a home member. He is really cute..big eyes..thin lips..nice nose..a bit cubby but in the way become muscular. Saw him half-naked in locker room, fair skin..nice chest and cute tummy, but can see the abs coming out soon. ; ) We have made some eye contacts, but I always so shy to look at him for more than few seconds.

When I was having my chance to look at him without his notice it, a trainer approached and asked me want try to new exercises for core and lower body as well as increase endurance. Without hesistating, I said okay without knowing it's the pathway to the realm of HELL!! I was like OMG..so torturing those exercises I did. Squat..jump..plank..push up..dumbbell all the way. Total got 6 exercises with 15 reps x 3 rounds, but I only did 2 rounds. Seriously, I almost faint and die!! He kept saying.."You can do it!!" Couldn't really walked upstair with my legs..shaking. My heart beat was super fast at that time...like going to explode.

Nevertheless. it's good exercises to train your body with using all your muscles. Luckily, went into the locker room on time when that cute guy just finished shower and came out. Made some eyes contact again, yet too shy to smile at him. He also looks so cute with the glasses on. Next day, I hope I'm not paralysed and cannot move my legs.