Qualified in Superficial Group??

No doubt all of us sure got superficial side, regardless straight or gay, we all like beautiful and nice looking things, but people have different way to cope or compromise with this 'evil' side. What am I trying to point out is nothing wrong to be superficial, but do you think about yourself first before being superficial??

You see it's nothing wrong to look for a hot and good looking guy, but you have to know the hotties also like you, LOOking for hot guy too. You can't expect they are not superficial and willing to see your beautiful inner parts first. If you don't have the look and hot body, please don't be so picky and keep rejecting all the average look guys.

In reality, what attract people first is the outer parts, it's very hard for people to straight away look at the inner part first. The outer parts attract people first, then only they slowly discover the beautiful innner part of yours. That's way so many couples will break up because beautiful outer parts attract them, but then the inner parts do not look good or not match theirs. It's sad but quite true.

 Hence, you want continue be superficial, first look at yourself first, if you are good looking then okay, but if not then two things you can do is either accept youself and others or work on your body!! Everyone can have nice body if you want to, so I don't think you can't get any hot guy with hot body except you want a perfect guy in term of personality, look and body, then I got nothing to say.

 The Look

Lovely small eyes =D

That facial hair... =3

The Body

Okay la this a bit too hard to get

 

Like this I think to me is quite okay

Downloaded them!!

I finally couldn't resist my curiousity about Grindr and Jack'd so I downloaded them at the same time. Well, I just kind of try and see, not going to have more beyond just chatting. Surprisingly my area got quite a number of gays, even got White!! He looks so yummy ; )

Not sure right or not, I uploaded my face profile pciture since I saw 90% of them showing their faces. I guess skinny type not most people taste, only got one or two guys knocked my door in both apps. Of course from I have read from all my dear bloggers, they sure asked what I am seeking first.

Well, I quite naughty as replied I also not sure what I'm seeking. Then, they kept insisting want to know exact answer. At the end, I just said I seeking for friends..then no reply... LOL so realistic. However, got one guy got patience to chat with me, he is a nice guy but a bit too old for me..xD

To be honest, I just want to test whether I got market outside the world..Lol. Have the feeling I'm going to delete it very soon, but see how it goes first =p

Househusband

So tiring for this few days until no time to go gym. Mum went oversea, I can do whatever I want at home..if you know what I mean ; ) However, I have to do all the houseworks =(  Cleaning..laundry..ironing..cooking.

People may think for laundry just put everything inside the washing machine then settle, but my brother expensive clothes and pants MUST handwash!! and he is being served like a prince so not sure he knows how to use washing machine so don't talk about handwash with his precious hand. My dad and him also never seen them iron their own clothes..so I help them ironing too. Ironing also need skills to get wrinkleless shirt and pants. =(

For cooking, I quite enjoy it even my cooking skills still got space for improvement =p Well, I mostly cook western cuisine, Chinese cuisine is quite hard for me x.x If lazy, I just order pizza and I don't care my brother likes or not =p

Looking at these, I can choose to be househusband..LOL I don't mind stay at home to take care everything if my love one willing to earn money to feed me xD How nice it's to anticipate your love one coming back from work and you are cooking then back hug you...then....*coughing* okay..out of track.

Nowaday, is there really a lot guys willing to become househusbands regardless gay or straight???

Hmmm.. ;)

 

 

Hubby wearing just apron waiting for you ; )

 

My future expectation..cooking with him..even though the reality of this photo is not what I think xD

 

Oh Gosh!

Okay I think I'm pregnant...my body changed a lot. Morning sickness..feel so hungry all the time..food I didn't like to eat and I'm craving for them now...feel so tired all the time. Omg what is happening to my body?? An alien baby growing inside me?? Ahhh....

One more thing, people work out normally will gain muscle, but I grew taller instead -.-  I gained 5kg but the F*cking machine still said I'm underweight becasue my height changed!!!! Only my mom glad about it even I'm the tallest (170++) in my family, because my grandpa sides all FREAKING 180++ tall..both boys and girls and gorgeous looking. Apparently, my grandpa is tall and eyes are bit silver colour (since born and not disease) so I doubt that maybe my ancestor got Caucasian bloodline??? Too bad not on me, typical Chinese look with small eyes T.T

Okay some people may want to spit on me if I complaining about became taller. However, you have to undestand my situation of being a stick all the time and the pain of stereotype and discrimination..YES!! Skinny people (especially with nerdy look) also will be discriminated like obese people!! Teasing..mocking..bullying..all you can think of during my younger age.

Now at least not that really skinny, but still need to continue my work out. PLEASE people..should also concern the pain of skinny people too. We also have hard times too. =(

HUGE Tool

*Warning*!! This post may contain something that may disgust or enlight you. Either way you still will widen your eyes O.O Oh. You may also feel nothing at all as I may just overeact!! =)

I never posted and uploaded this kind of photos, but I was really felt so shock when I saw it so just wonder anyone have seen this or help me to identify whether it's edited! I still not really believe it. Therefore this post not going to write too much. Just to share the photos..

Brace yourself....!!!

Good Manny??

Reading the blog post from Leo Nut , it made me think back all the experiences of babysitting and interacting with young kids from high school to Uni life. Overall, I think I can handle young kids well, but not for young baby. I think good with age 4 and above. The best thing to get close is play game with them. Any game will just lead you all become close. One more thing is PATIENCE!! It's very important, especially for those kids who close their heart tightly and not willing to talk with you. Hmm..I think I can become a good Manny...hahahaha

The most unforgivable experience is the time babysitting at UK. I went for vacation at UK and stayed at my cousin place. My cousin working (Work & Travel) with a nice young British couple with two adorable children and we living in the small hosue beside the couple's house (actually part of it).

*Names used are not real name*

I helped my cousin to take care the two kids, when I first time met Shirley (3 years old), she was crawling down from staircase. When she saw me, she faster screaming my cousin's name and crawling up back. I didn't know I should laugh or feel sad. LOL On the other hand, Ben (5 years old) staring at me carefully like I was a dangerous figure -.-

After few hours of playing with Ben, we were already like buddies (felt so proud for myself xD), but Shirley still a bit afraid of me -.- Okay go to the reason made this experience so unforgivable was that I was playing with Ben inside an over-ground train. Then, an old British man using his strong British accent asked me.. "Is he your son?" (Ben's mother has Asian bloodline so he also got a bit Asian looks)

I was like...O.O...do I look so that old?? I was just 19!!!! Isn't that Asian always look so young for Caucasian?? Yet I politely replied him I'm not his FATHER!! My cousin couldn't stop laughing =.=

After many days, both of them quite close with me. I almost wanted to cry when I was leaving the house, I guess they did too cause they didn't know not going to see me anymore at that time
=( Miss them so much now, I think they have grown up until I can't recognize them..became pretty girl and handsome boy =)

How I wish I can have chidlren like them =D

This kid resemble Ben but Ben is more handsome ; p

Hunk with Glasses..No??

Again from my broad preferences, not sure it's considered fetish or not. I always find hot hunks with glasses extremely attractive and turn me on. Some of my friends said it looks weird if a good and gentle look specs guy with buff body. However, when I see a hot hunk with specs, I can't resist to glance him for several times.

Of course, he is a bit good looking first then only find him hot even wearing glasses. I can't really get away from superficial label..lol.. but sometimes when I meet a guy I'm not just see how hot is he, I also identify his potentials to become hot, like "Hmm..if his hair style change a bit, Hmmm...if his chest bulk up a bit....hmm... if etc." all in my mind.

Maybe I like the contrast feelings it shows, when a gentle look glasses guy with hot body. I also not sure why, but I really sure not because of I'm wearing glasses too. Recently, many hotties with spec keep appearing in my gmy, I feel so happy about it. They all have really nice bodies and like to wear tight clothes or because body a bit too big  xp

=D

 

Felt hesitate to upload this becasue he really look like my cousin LOL