Saturday, 23 February 2013

Top with Top & Bottom with Bottom

Hmmm..I have talked about this Topic before, but came across an interesting post on a forum. A guy asked whether he still can keep the relationship with his current BF or not. Why? because both of them are Tops, but love each other so much.

They tried Top vs bottom way but it didn't go well and kind of made the situation worst. He mentioned love without sex and sex without love, can't make the relationship lasts.

Well, from my opinion...JUST opinion, you can have many ways to settle the sex part if both of them really love each other so much. You know..nowadays got many fancy..kinky..cool...toys, instrument or whatever to add some spices on your sex life ; ) Of course there are also some other natural ways *wink wink*

Then question again? Does it really can last?? when both of you are tops or bottoms?? Erm....what I said in long time ago post..Lesbians still can survive and live happily together, and I'm sure their sex life too.

In theory, both of them are considered...bottoms yet I don't see problem with them...you know.. ; )

However, maybe gays are different?? I don't know human are so complicated. ; ( Hence, I would like to dedicate a song to that guy.. P!nk - Try!!!! LOL

16 comments:

  1. I think it will work, somehow they will need to give & take - to find a balance in the relationship.

    But then again, love knows no boundary.

    :)

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    1. Yes! Both parties have to compomise and willing to give in : )

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  2. Sex? That's not love, that's lust. Plenty of way for one to express love.

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    1. It's not love but part of relationship. Many studies showed that sex is crucial factor to maintain good relationship, of course got other important things too. Who says old couple can't have sex? Many still do : )

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  3. that's so sweet! well i don't think orientation is THAT important in most cases because in the end one person will always accomodate, but since they are in love, they should totally hang on to each other! hard to be in love =(

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    1. Ya!! Hard to really love somone and don't want lose him. :)

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  4. I am not so sure whether love can last or not in that situation. For me, I definitely can't enter people and it is impossible to be with a bottom as a lover. My brain just can't do that. How I wish I am versatile and be flexible.

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  5. why people say love is blind?coz love only see the person that we love,love didnt see a person's appearance,job,orientation,gender,religion,race bla bla....

    back to the issue,it should work

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    1. Hahaha..ya I should tell that to him too

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  6. maybe there's going to be a lot of give and take! funny how love works eh?

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    1. Sometimes love is simple, sometime it's complicated..sigh..

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  7. I guess if you truly love someone, it doesn't really matter.

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    1. Yes! Sex is not priority if they really love each other, other things can just give and take

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