To me, I want my relationship in monogamy form as in stick with one partner. Some people may laugh out loud, but that's what I want it to be.
However, I realized that some people are holding the idea, which being in or holding belief in monogamy relationship is more superior and higher class than those who are not, especially those pure fun seekers. Let's just summarize what they normally will think:
- Disregard and feel disgust for those who have casual sex around
- Think people who are not or believe in monogamy spoiled the imgae of gay
- Promiscuous is the word they normally use to label those fun seeker
- Think they are higher in sanity and so called higher class
Okay I understand why they think that way, mostly probably the risk of getting unwanted diseases. However, we need to respect others' choice as long as they play safe. Just like being straight is the mainstream, doesn't mean people can discriminate gay.
As a gay, you sure understand how it feels like when people feel disgust and think you are dirty, so please don't do the same thing among ourselves. People want casual sex or open relationship, SO What?? It's their rights and personal life as long as they know how to take care themselves.
Up to this point, it doesn't mean I support nor encourage it, I just want people respect others' choice and don't have negative feelings to them. If they doing without protection, just help and guide them to do it in safer way. Not belittle them!!
In the end, who doesn't like sex?? Just depends how you want to have and enjoy sex IN SAFE WAY!!!!!!!