To me, I want my relationship in monogamy form as in stick with one partner. Some people may laugh out loud, but that's what I want it to be.
However, I realized that some people are holding the idea, which being in or holding belief in monogamy relationship is more superior and higher class than those who are not, especially those pure fun seekers. Let's just summarize what they normally will think:
- Disregard and feel disgust for those who have casual sex around
- Think people who are not or believe in monogamy spoiled the imgae of gay
- Promiscuous is the word they normally use to label those fun seeker
- Think they are higher in sanity and so called higher class
Okay I understand why they think that way, mostly probably the risk of getting unwanted diseases. However, we need to respect others' choice as long as they play safe. Just like being straight is the mainstream, doesn't mean people can discriminate gay.
As a gay, you sure understand how it feels like when people feel disgust and think you are dirty, so please don't do the same thing among ourselves. People want casual sex or open relationship, SO What?? It's their rights and personal life as long as they know how to take care themselves.
Up to this point, it doesn't mean I support nor encourage it, I just want people respect others' choice and don't have negative feelings to them. If they doing without protection, just help and guide them to do it in safer way. Not belittle them!!
In the end, who doesn't like sex?? Just depends how you want to have and enjoy sex IN SAFE WAY!!!!!!!
the pictures are too much distraction for ur serious post. hahahaha. still, the guy in the last pic, the left one. i want htim. lol
ReplyDeleteyeah true. everyone is entitled to their own opinion. as long u dont cheat and talk with ur partner, just do whatever u want
Hahahah..oppsss!! Should take the pic down? xD I know right!! I want him too!! His name is Ronnie Oscar Tung ; )
DeleteYes!! As long as you don't cheat and play safe
Ok I agree with the pic. Too spicy! Haha
ReplyDeleteI think the best is be open with your partner and discuss about it. It takes both sides to agree to something like this. But someone once told me don't give your heart but playing safe is a must. Oh well. Haha.
Hahaha..hot and spicy ; )
DeleteI wonder who is the someone, give a BIG like for him/her!!
Relationship is meant to be with one person only.
ReplyDeleteIf it's not, then it's not a relationship at all.
Well, I think the same way like you, but everyone has different view or definition for relationship so...ya..their choice.
DeleteEveryone has a different view in relationship. But no one should judge others, regardless what their views are. Some people are okay with open relationship, where the partners are free to go "play" with others, but ultimately they recognise each other as their permanent "partner". I don't think that's wrong, if both parties agree with it.
ReplyDeleteAs for monogamy, I think that's quite sacred. People in monogamy relationship is not 'better' or 'superior' than people who aren't. They are just lucky to find that one person that they can be satisfied with, mentally, physically, and spiritually. So in the end, it's just.... luck?
Yes, if they okay with it, we as outsider can't judge or do anything.
DeleteLuck?? Then, I wish I have the luck T.T where are you!!
your pic is what I see first =P should post naked pic of you instead. Last pic, left guy is cute !
ReplyDeleteyea, open relationship is fine.. Who don't like sex ?
You put your naked pic first xD
DeleteOh..you okay with open relationship.. ; )
Wow!! I am surprise with the reactions. Can I say that I respect their choice but I don't support open relationship. As for your question. Nah... It's just the same. No higher class or lower class but instead they would be envied if they could keep their relationship's intensity and quality. Nothing to do with hygiene.
ReplyDeleteYa...respect is most important. I'm so jealous who can stay for so long one :)
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