Tuesday 30 July 2013

Attached & Hidden Agenda Prt. 2

First of all, Thank You for all you guys' feedbacks and suggestions. I am seriosuly not that desperate okay?!! All I want just hug and a kiss, that's all ;P Actually, Sean also finding a new place to stay, so just hope he able to find it soon.

I remember I posted about why Attached guys still on gay apps before >> G-apps. That time I think they should delete it once they are in relationship, but now I totally can understand it!!! LOLLL

I still keep the apps, and like some said before, just curious gays around me and fun looking with Sean too. Sometimes we share about those hot guys I found ; ) and with another gay friends too. However, I never reply anyone who msg me, because I know everything starts with friend.

It's very dangerous to know a gay friend through the apps, not generalizing just got the risk la. You have no idea what's going happen next. Sean is the type who will layan all guys' messages =.= Before he met me, he even until exchanged phone no. with quite a number of guys, some quite hot one.

When we just being together, he still replied all msg =.=. I think he sensed my unhappiness about it, he already stopped it...I hope it's.

Nonetheless, got one incident when hanging out with our mutual friend, forgot what lead to apps (the friend said something) and I only realized his profile is sexy shirtless photo!!!! Of course straight away took his phone (I know his password la) and spot-check his chat room!!!

As expected, so many guys msg him!! but he didn't reply to a single guy at all la, or he deleted them??? To be honest, at first I really Really felt not happy at all, controlled my facial expression. I forgot what he explained, my mind just blocked his voice, I just simply repsponded. I think he said it's old photo before we met. 

After a while, I got over it (so fast xD), I'm okay with it, I know I can't control everything. If it's going to happen, it will happen, and most important I TRUST him. I think until now still shirtless...yup..Sean I went to stalk and see quite some times but not anymore... LOLLLLL

Eric East!! =D (left) and don't know who..LOL



12 comments:

  1. Exactly what happened with me and my ex. So like you, I expected him to be cautious with messaging guys on the app, I secretly checked his app before too. And like you, I also wondered if he had actually deleted those naughty ones.

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    1. Ya..I got that kind of thought, but I'm okay now. Knowing him until now, what he has been doing, gained my trust for him =)

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  2. Totally understand that it's not about sex. No worries lah... We faham. No experience about dating. But I kinda think that checking phone is a big NO NO.

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    1. Erm..I only check his phone in front of him few times, and he just continue doing his stuff. In his mind, I don't know la, he just said he doesn't mind.

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  3. Part 2?! where's part one!! hhaahaha =P

    I tend to agree with THC. Even if he said it's fine, try as possible to avoid doing it. Since u said u trust him, then there's no reason to check =)

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    1. Got link at there ma!

      Okay I try to stop doing it =(

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  4. So long one doesn't cross the line, and knows that he is committed.

    The app should be used with discretion.

    :)

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  5. ask him put a pic of him with shirt on la. too much skin will attract people like me haha

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  6. I never check before ..... because i trust him ??

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