Do you need your partner constantly say the three words "I love you"? Like you need it to not feel insecure? Or even he says it constantly, wouldn't you doubt about the sincerity and genuineness? Some people say you can feel it whether he is really meant it or not, but I think just saying the words means love without action.
You no need to hear that constantly to know how much he loves you, just pay attention all the things (don't care just small matter) he does for you and every moment you guys spend together. Love can't describe in words easily, while you need to feel it too, listen to your heart. That's why many people don't care about it, only realize how much they love that person, when they lost him.
Most of the time, I will feel happier if Sean says he is happy with me rather than "I love you". The former is more powerful and meaningful to me, because knowing not just myself feel happy so does him with each other company, is a great feeling for me.
To me saying "I love you" is not like mandatory, but necessary in some times only. However, you ask me how I feel about the love between Sean and I, I also don't know how to describe. I just feel happy and comfortable with him. One of the things I feel comfortable and love it, is both of us sitting at coffee shop quietly, busying with our own things, then chit chat a while then back to silent again.
Oh! Like it's not good to keep asking how much your partner loves you. It's also not necessary to ask how happy he is with you. Once I know he is happy, then it's enough for me, because I know when I try to measure it or be calculative, I am losing everything bit by bit at the same time. Plus, why I need to care more when I am already feeling happy and so does him. Just wanna live in present.
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| Too bad couldn't drag him in cause he was the one taking photo..LOL |
where's the out-of-beach model pose pic? LOLOLOL
ReplyDeleteHahaha..soon soon ; )
DeleteI couldn't agree more with what you've written. It's not necessary to say it all the time. And like you said, I feel like it means more when the other person says that they're happy with you. Somehow it feels better.
ReplyDeleteThat's right!! Somehwo it gives you the meaning and reason to love him more
Deletehahaha the last thing you wanna do is to force your lover to do anything. But for me it comes naturally, and certainly if the other party expresses it constantly it gives warm reassurance lor. Because if someone is in love he/she will express it one way or another, for me anyway. And if anyone is lukewarm, or in other words, I am lukewarm, then perhaps something very wrong has manifested in the relationship. I've seen people changed from saying sweet words everyday to not even saying "i miss you".
ReplyDeleteBut that being said you and dear Sean so sweet every now and then go honeymoon AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH <3 <3 <3
Ya..different people have different way to use it. Maybe they think it's not necessary anymore so they stop saying sweet words =(
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