Would you date your best friend's ex? Is it a dilemma to you?
To me, I would it depends on many things that will make me decide what to do.
- Were they break up peacefully?
- Are they still friends?
- How strong is my feelings toward that ex,
- Is my relationship with best friend strong enough to go through this?
I asked some of my friends, most of them say it is big NO NO to date best friend's ex no matter how close you are with him or her. Although the best friend mostly would say you can go ahead, deep down sure there is something still bothering she/he, and it would still feel uncomfortable for him/her, especially sitting on same table having meal together. (That's what they said la)
Typical me, I would follow my heart as usual, even though I listed out those things as above to be my considerations. xD However, IF they broke up because the ex cheated or they really ended up badly, I would definitely not going to date him.
Maybe everything is okay, but I have to choose best friend or that ex. I would choose best friend, because having true friend is more important than knowing someone who just might be the right. Best friend is forever.
People would think don't say it for sure, because when I am in the situation, things will be different from what I have thought and said. I might just give up the best friend, and choose the so called "Mr Right".
Oh well, I seriously hope there is win win situation, even though it is hard.
"Right time, right person - Happiness for life. Right time, wrong person - Sad ending. Wrong time, right person - Regret for life. Wrong time, wrong person - Torturous time."
I'm sure all of us want to avoid the last one.
U forgot one part; eternity, alone - That's life hahaha =P
ReplyDeleteHahaha..nothing wrong if you are alone or single, someone prefer that n it's another way of life
DeleteI personally wouldn't. Friends can never be replaced. Coz each and every single one of them are unique. Besides, I think it'd feel super awkward as well.
ReplyDeleteHmm..I see. Totally agree to friends can never be replaced.
DeleteJust make sure you are happy! ;)
ReplyDeleteFriend's happiness also part of my happiness xD
DeleteAlthough the logic sense in our brain say it's a big NO NO but some would go for it based on their feelings because they are waiting to have a partner their whole life so they wouldn't mind or couldn't care less if the best friend is angry or not. No matter what the decision is, this is a very personal dilemma in which everyone will handle it differently.
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