Thursday 11 April 2013

Move on or Let go...really?

I have no idea why recenlty all the songs I like are talking about move on from past relationship.. English..Mandarin...Korean... or just most songs are like that =.=

Nonetheless, looking at those lyrics..it made think a lot about move on. What really is move on? Is a person can totally move on from past relationship???

From my opinion, I think move on means you see the past relationship differently since we can't erase the memory, it will still inside corner of your brain, just that you conciously and unconciously ignore the existence of it.

We just use a proper term 'move on'  or 'let go' to show we 'forget' the past relationship, thsoe memories still there forever and we can't get rid of. However, how you look at those memories is another thing.

A heartbroken relationship will provoke different feelings on different timing..you may feel sad and miserable about it now, after few years the memory still in your mind vividly but the way you looking at it would be different. You probably would still feel the pain, but at least you able to give it a small smile.

When people say let the time cures..but actually is let your mind and feeling change..can be more matured or realized something. How you see and feel for the past depends how you think and percieve the memory.






8 comments:

  1. I think it's true what you have written there: "Let your mind and feeling change."

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    1. Thank you =) when those things changed, that past means different to you =)

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  2. right now, looking back at my previous relationships.. I will be like "why on earth I even got together with that guy"

    WE WILL NEVER EVER EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER !

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    1. Hahaha..well it's also see it in another way..xD

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  3. move on is...detachment of the feeling of love....

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  4. shin shin u say until u r the one dat kena dump like that LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

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    1. LOL...I'm talking it generally not about my past ; )

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