Saturday, 25 January 2014

Indian Hunk Prt 2 & Problem of Chinese

Someone wrote a comment on my previous post >> I H and he hopes more people can know about gay Indian. Do him a favor I just copy and paste what he wrote =) Oh! I don't think my blog got problem, since others also can sign in by google account. xD

"Why are gays so rare to be seen ? Well its bcoz most gays that are seen in gay clubs in singapore or malaysia are chinese ....Indian gays are a rarety.

as a chinese , i date/am attached to/going to marry , an indian and it is fun. We now live in canada, and im back here in kl to visit my family .

and i feel my fellow chinese in malaysia and singapore are the only ones that have these types of prejudice for other than their own race(i.e indians , and others ) .In canada and the USA , chinese are not so narrow minded towards their own race .After going through your post , I asked my partner about why are there so little malaysian and singaporean indian gays in Singapore and malaysia .He told me some of his views as i say below :

Firstly ,there are many hot/sexy/hunky indians , but they are not gay . And most tamil/indian movies dont potray men as hunky , but rather "normal sized" , thus young indian boys are not "pressured to have a buff body .Unlike us , we chinese see a lot of korean or japanese models (gay or straight)in the tv and movies that are very hunky and buff, so we tend to chase that dream of being like our idols and actors . Indian men are very "gentlemanly" , meaning they dont like to be seen nude or with undies EVENTHOUGH THEY HAVE A SIX PACK OR A HOT BODY .Its diff
erent than our chinese counterpart , like Caucasians, will gladly love to do that at the beach or in a swimming pool , just walking in the undies or naked .

In my opinion, I find that many chinese in singapore and malaysia are quite chinese -educated , so they are quite ethnocentric towards only their race .But personally , i have to advise them ,.... i dont feel that chinese gays should be doing that as the gay circle is not that large , and its even more difficult when u bias by using race or skin color as we all will go haggard or age when we are old .The japanese /korean-model-like-buff-body-dream will not make us happy :(


Why am i writing this ever so lengthy post , well its because i sincerely feel that many are curious about indian gays in malaysia and singapore . Since i am attached to one , I feel i can shed some light ."  from anonymous (what's your name?) xD

I totally agree with him that many Chinese at Malys & SG quite like living in their own world or aroggant?, especially they are hot and will even think they are better than other even same race with them. I still remember a gay from US that I chatted before, said one thing he doesn't like about Chinese gay at here, is they are so not united or friendly to each other. In US, if you are at gay bar or anywhere, at least everyone will have casual talk like normal friend, even though they don't know each other.  



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17 comments:

  1. You know what , this post really made sense !
    I agree that we are mostly living in a shell here .In fact , in a way i am embarass to admit i used to be like that too , bias towards own people only .Tsk tsk .....it is true lah , looks can go off after all , maybe thats why many chinese gay still single , my friends also many like that -.-


    And to be honest , in the last two pic i can actually like the above pic more , the guy below looks so fake !

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    1. Hmm..ya I think it's one of the reasons many gays here still single and don't believe in true love?

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  2. I do agree with some Chinese who still lives in a nut shell. They are not only bias at times to other races but also to their own kind. Easy example is if you have a face of an angel with great body, everybody wants to be your friend. If you're rich it's a plus. But if it's the other way round, well I won't need to say more. Again it's totally mentality.

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    1. Ya..it's reality if you not good looking and no hot body, you will feel inferior or people look down on you..

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  3. sohai post written by a sohai blogger .no wonder your blog like is not popular

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    1. Haha..but still thanks for commented on my this not popular blog.

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  4. i go for the one that smells good :)

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    1. wow , thats racist

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    2. on another note , looking at your blog im happy im not u .Enjoy life ! , and yeah you are right , go for the guy that has the best smell ,im sure he has a great heart too

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    3. lol.. you care to comment and even try reading, it means something no? lol.. and no one likes a stinky person.. which part of my statement is racist? lol.... if someone came up to me and doesnt smell right, there wont be any conversation to start with, whether he is a good nice lad or not, no one will know lol...

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    4. @tuls read this a song playing in my head "hope you can’t tell but I hope she smells my perfume~" LOL
      I'm not sure talking my blog or yours? We both seems enjoy our life well right?? We all have moment of feeling down, but we also know how to smile back =)

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  5. the latter, and it's not the skin colour, i just dont have a thing for facial hair lol

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  6. just looking at some of the comments , i guess it shows that some people are having that shallow mentality like what was stated by your blog in the first place .Its really amusing to see these comments show how this race issue among gays are played . I guess you are right , many chinese gays are living under a shell after all

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    1. Thanks for your comment and glad you have same thoguht with mine =)

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  7. boring blog and should be shut down , sohai ...i prefer my own anytime .you should be embarrassed to post this , traitor , thats what u are

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  8. hi there,

    first of all, i would like to thank you for bringing up this matter on your blog...myself being an indian, when i started to blog two months back to find good friendship, i realized that there weren't any blogs by "malaysian indian" gay guys, and to be honest, it was pretty odd for me, although i have to say that i don't really believe in race stuff...but what made me sad was that few blog had entries that were saying bad stuffs about indian guys like dark skinned, not so well behaved, name it la, all sort of nasty things, but i didn't take it personal, i mean, we all live amidst a crazy society, so can't expect every human to be good...at the same time, i managed to come across few bloggers who shared their interracial love stories, and it made me happy, because my first love story happens to be with a chinese guy, and it's funny when i think back on how i told my feelings towards him, because being indian, i was rather nervous, haha, pondered if he will love me, and yes, he did, he was in love with me as well...and i didn't fall in love with him because he was chinese or whatsoever, it's just, i fell for him, as simple as that, no expectations, nothing, i fell for his inner beauty, and since i grew up believing that true love knows no boundaries, the only preference i had was, my guy must have a good heart....

    sometimes, i just wish that all gay guys would believe in unconditional love, or love without expectations, and have faith in true love, because for those who chase after good looking guys, they must realize that aging is an inevitable process, good looks may fade, but never a good heart...

    take care and bless it be =)

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