Everyone for sure want their Mr. or Ms. Right is a perfect person while in reality not everyone is perfect. Even though those persons who labelled as perfect I also feel doubt about it. No that I'm jealous or pessimisit I just think there is for sure one minor flaw in a person no matter how perfect he or she is. Well, maybe the meaning perfect is different from each person and if there is no flaw where got the word perfect and make it so precious and desperated from people.
From my many years observation, I don't know I should say God or our "Creator" (since not a really religious person nor atheist) is fair or not because what I can say is he gives you one or two gifts, then he sure will take away one thing or two things from you. For example, some guys have the look but don't have the height while some have the height but not good looking. Of course if you have the hot body already cover many things but still can't considered perfect. That's why everytime I see those hot guys with high score in height, look and body, I automatic think about their flaw or weakness. I have seen some cases that he got all the things but one thing make him out of Mr. Perfect, personality. Another guy is his voice.
I'm not trying to burst everyone bubble or what, maybe I still haven't seen a real perfect guy but I just want to say as long as the person can make you happy and willing to spend your whole life with him then I think he is the Mr. Perfect for you.
Friday, 31 August 2012
Friday, 17 August 2012
Super Muscular Guy
Today I met my colleague's gym buddy at gym. I jaw was dropped off when I saw him because he is like super muscular and tall. I can only use one work to describe my frist impression. Huge!!..literally. His body is totally a inverted triangle body shape. I heard that he is from Iran and is professional trainer.
As a gay of myself, I think it is too much for me because he is really huge to me. Although he can draw attention from me but not in term of attraction. However, my another female colleague definitely so in to him. She likes those super muscular guy where most of my female friends prefer a bit muscular guy is enough. Too bad only my colleague able to take photo with him. Trying to find any picture like him, but quite hard to find.
As a gay of myself, I think it is too much for me because he is really huge to me. Although he can draw attention from me but not in term of attraction. However, my another female colleague definitely so in to him. She likes those super muscular guy where most of my female friends prefer a bit muscular guy is enough. Too bad only my colleague able to take photo with him. Trying to find any picture like him, but quite hard to find.
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| Like this but taller and bigger..so hard to find =( |
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| I prefer this type of body. Totally turn on by him ; ) |
Monday, 13 August 2012
Hairy boy
Erm..after passed my puberty and became an young adult. A lot of things seem normal to me in term of life. One of the things I quite concern about of course is my physical appearance..well I started to go gym to build up my skinny body, but one thing I can't ignore is my hairy gene. Everyone always has the same surprise reaction even my parents when they see my super hairy legs. Moreover, I'm a quite fair skin person so it's more obvious to notice. Not just leg my other parts (including pubic hair) whichannoy me because the region it has grown until I can't really wear brief underwear but only trunk to avoid see my sexy hair. Plus, my overall appearance doesn't match with hairy that's why so many people feel so surpirse to find out how hairy I am.
Now I can see my chest also start becoming hairier -.-. Well, maybe if I really don't like it I shall try waxing though they say it's quite painful. I noramlly just trim my private part and armpit, and legs I just let it be so just wear short pants like normal.
Now I can see my chest also start becoming hairier -.-. Well, maybe if I really don't like it I shall try waxing though they say it's quite painful. I noramlly just trim my private part and armpit, and legs I just let it be so just wear short pants like normal.
Wednesday, 8 August 2012
Hot guys in Malaysia?
Everyday seems so busy for me after I became a member of gym, which I finally decided to join. Every moment was full of work and task to do. Gym, final year project and part-time job...all suddenly bombarded in my life. Not use to being so busy during holidays since my all past holidays just did nothing productive.
Sometimes morning go to gym then straight away go working, by the time reach my home already super tired and straight away jump to bed. By good thing in my work is can see and find many hot guys in my working place even though just can keep an eye on them (cause part of our services isfollow and approach them..one to one service) ..well better than nothing. Actually, don't know I'm not that picky or what, I think Malaysia also got a lot of hot guys regarding looking and body. Maybe I haven't explore to other nice place or country with a lot of hot guys like from what I have read is Singapore. From all those other countries (UK, Australia etc.) I have been, Malaysia (or K.L) not bad at all, maybe I more in to Asian...haha.
Recently, got one day nothing to do so click on Facebook to stalk some hot guys and like I said there are a lot of hot guys in Malaysia base. Some I think can see they are gay as all their friends are males and with all hot bodies. My eyes were wider to max to realise so many hot guys out there in Malaysia mostly in K.L. Well, I just hope my future one is just good enough already okay as I also not that hot and good looking.
Sometimes morning go to gym then straight away go working, by the time reach my home already super tired and straight away jump to bed. By good thing in my work is can see and find many hot guys in my working place even though just can keep an eye on them (cause part of our services isfollow and approach them..one to one service) ..well better than nothing. Actually, don't know I'm not that picky or what, I think Malaysia also got a lot of hot guys regarding looking and body. Maybe I haven't explore to other nice place or country with a lot of hot guys like from what I have read is Singapore. From all those other countries (UK, Australia etc.) I have been, Malaysia (or K.L) not bad at all, maybe I more in to Asian...haha.
Recently, got one day nothing to do so click on Facebook to stalk some hot guys and like I said there are a lot of hot guys in Malaysia base. Some I think can see they are gay as all their friends are males and with all hot bodies. My eyes were wider to max to realise so many hot guys out there in Malaysia mostly in K.L. Well, I just hope my future one is just good enough already okay as I also not that hot and good looking.
Thursday, 2 August 2012
Finally! Hope of Gay marriage in Asia
I saw a news about same-sex marriage could be legal in Vietnam.Vietnam's Communist government is now considering whether to allow same-sex couples to marry or legally register and receive rights. If the proposal passed, Vietnam definitely would create a unforgettable milestone or history. I was quite surprised yet still felt happy about it as finally there is a start for facing and accepting same sex relationship among Asia countries. Homosexual is always a taboo in Asian culture so don't even say same sex marriage. However, with the hardwork of gay activists and scientists to prove that homosexual is not a illness or mental problems. The acceptance of homosexual becoming more approachable to public especially younger generation and there are 11 countries and few states in USA already legalised same sex marriage. For further reading please go here http://www.opposingviews.com/i/religion/religion-society/same-sex-marriage-could-become-legal-vietnam
Like others opinion, pass or not is not important, as long as finally got people in Asia start facing this reality and not avoid it anymore. It's really a big step for asian culture and probably make other Asia countries to start consider and discuss about this issue. I really hope there is a day when asking someone sexual orientation and the answer is homosexual would be no surprise and disgust, just like normal response like asking age.
Like others opinion, pass or not is not important, as long as finally got people in Asia start facing this reality and not avoid it anymore. It's really a big step for asian culture and probably make other Asia countries to start consider and discuss about this issue. I really hope there is a day when asking someone sexual orientation and the answer is homosexual would be no surprise and disgust, just like normal response like asking age.
Wednesday, 25 July 2012
Gay Men and Aging Part 1
Recently, read about an article from Michael C. LaSala (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/gay-and-lesbian-well-being/201204/gay-men-and-aging-finding-your-purpose) and it made me be silent for awhile to think about it. The article mainly talking about how most gay men culture too focus on physical attractiveness and beauty of their sexual partners, but those things will be taken away little by little over time. Hence, when gay men start growing older and older, they need to face this challenge by either keep maintianing your physical attractiveness or adjusting their value and purpose in life. I think both options are tough journey to go and some might go extreme like suicide which there are some real cases for this issue.
Therefore, we are quite vulnerable to some of wild sides of gay male life, which is overemphsis on looks, youth, and sexual attractiveness while having the risk of losing healthier life and values for sustaining and helping you in aging. The author didn't mean looking for beauty is wrong as I like what he said "Nothing is wrong with lusting after a handsome man—(we are gay men after all), nor doing what you can to be one yourself" Just that we also have to think and value more other things rather than surface. We gay men also have feelings and own bad or good history of life, these can make us to get intangible assest beyond outside of a person. By the time, you already old only to start finding those things, it may be too late for you. I think you can have few years of wild life but you have to know when to stop or slow it down and start to about the purpose in life for long term.
Therefore, we are quite vulnerable to some of wild sides of gay male life, which is overemphsis on looks, youth, and sexual attractiveness while having the risk of losing healthier life and values for sustaining and helping you in aging. The author didn't mean looking for beauty is wrong as I like what he said "Nothing is wrong with lusting after a handsome man—(we are gay men after all), nor doing what you can to be one yourself" Just that we also have to think and value more other things rather than surface. We gay men also have feelings and own bad or good history of life, these can make us to get intangible assest beyond outside of a person. By the time, you already old only to start finding those things, it may be too late for you. I think you can have few years of wild life but you have to know when to stop or slow it down and start to about the purpose in life for long term.
Sunday, 22 July 2012
New Trend and Female Friends
Recently I found something interesting about mixed gender group of friends. I have seen a lot of groups are with one female and other are guys..is like literally a lot. I'm not saying this is wrong or unappropriate, I just curious what kind of relationships are this..all are best friends or she is one of the gang girlfriend? but most I have observed the female usually is like leader or alpha in the group., so the guys are her admirers? Quite curious about this trend, I can find it at every shopping mall and think it's quite interesting.
Well, I guess I can ask myself back cause my female friends totally more than male friends. Sometimes hang out with whole bunch of girls and I'm the only guy in the group. Even my dad asked me why most of my friends are female, I also didn't know how to answer. Maybe is normal for a gay? I always don't know why end up attach to a group which female is majority. I got 2 close male friends and other close or good friends are female. Maybe communicate well with girls and they found me more approachable compare to other guys? They normally automatic see me as friend not man..hahaha Don't know is good thing or not, but I don't think they suspect my sexual orientation. They just think I'm a little nerdy good boy...or maybe they got doubt inside their mind..not sure.
Well, I guess I can ask myself back cause my female friends totally more than male friends. Sometimes hang out with whole bunch of girls and I'm the only guy in the group. Even my dad asked me why most of my friends are female, I also didn't know how to answer. Maybe is normal for a gay? I always don't know why end up attach to a group which female is majority. I got 2 close male friends and other close or good friends are female. Maybe communicate well with girls and they found me more approachable compare to other guys? They normally automatic see me as friend not man..hahaha Don't know is good thing or not, but I don't think they suspect my sexual orientation. They just think I'm a little nerdy good boy...or maybe they got doubt inside their mind..not sure.
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